Everybody handles breakup differently, some better than others. When you take some time off from dating to heal from a breakup, here are the things you need to get back into the dating scene. Especially now that cities are opening up after the pandemic.
BE OPEN MINDED – When you come back to the dating scene adopt a different approach to things, remember why you went back to being single in the first place. Stop being stubborn, learn to say ”sorry” when you are wrong, give people the benefit of doubt, be open minded when you meet someone new because they may show up not looking like what you want but could be everything you’ve always wanted.
BE MENTALLY READY – It’s not advisable to jump from one relationship to another, ensure that you have completely moved on from your ex. If you have been single for a long time, be ready to move on from your single life and be ready to put in the work because every healthy relationship requires work. If you are always freaking out every time a date goes well, it could mean that you are not ready to move on from your single life or your ex.
GO WITH CONFIDENCE – People treat you how you treat yourself, if you don’t have confidence in yourself how can you convince a person to take you seriously? I advice you to come back to the dating scene with your confidence. do whatever you need to do to build your confidence. It could be
- exercise .
- diet .
- skin treatment .
- Ward-rope change.
- hair cut .
- teeth cleaning.
- waxing / shaving
- getting a job. etc.
NOTE – Rejection is inevitable, so that’s not an excuse to crawl back into your shell. Everyone deserves to be loved, if you are mentally ready for a relationship you will definitely attract one.
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