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It’s Not Love!!!

It’s Not Love!!! 

I know it sounds  crazy but this is the reality of so many women today, it was mine for a long time. Trust me it’s very easy to overlook and call it “crazy in love” it’s cute at first and you tell your friends how jealous he is and how he doesn’t want to share you with anyone until it isn’t. It’s important to know that you’re never to blame for the way an abusive person treats you.

You know you are in an abusive relationship if:  your partner tries to control you or your behaviour

your partner threatens to harm you, your pet, loved ones or himself just to get things done his way.

you’re scared of your partner.

Key signs of an abusive relationship

An abusive relationship isn’t just limited to physical violence. It can include sexual,verbal,emotional and physical abuse, and may involve control of your finances. Here are some signs to look for. Before you fall helplessly in love.


They check on you all the time to see where you are, what you’re doing and who you’re with.

They try to control where you go and who you see, and get angry if you don’t do what they say.


They accuse you of being unfaithful or of flirting.

They isolate you from family and friends, often by behaving rudely to them. Or they make you look like the bad person to your family so that when you cry out for help nobody will believe you.


They put you down, either publicly or privately, by attacking your intelligence, looks, mental health or capabilities. They constantly discourage you from making financial moves or shut down any idea that will lead to financial freedom.

They constantly compare you unfavourably to others.

They blame you for all the problems in your relationship, and for their violent outbursts.

They say things like, ‘No one else will want you.’ It’s your fault, look what you have turned me to.


They yell, nag,or sulk, and deliberately break things that you value.

They threaten to use violence against you, your family, friends or a pet.

Physical and sexual violence

They push, shove, hit or grab you, or make you have sex or do things you don’t want to do. Regardless of how you feel.

They harm you, your pets or your family members.

And when you summon the courage to leave the relationship they fight you with everything they have and try to manipulate you by involving the people you have so much respect for to beg on their behalf. It’s a trap don’t fall for it! Stand your grounds, stay far away as possible from them and change your number if possible. else they will make sure to ruin your next relationship.

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